Love, Sexual activity and All the Rest: Sex Positions and Numbers

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April xiv, 2016

College: pants go tighter, pockets get lighter, and if you have the luxury of living in NYU housing, beds get smaller. A twin Xl seems less than platonic for a steamy, tardily-nighttime hookup, just that's what we take to work with. And honestly, it tin can lead to some of your best sex withal. With the size limitation comes a whole new earth of position exploration. A confined space comfortably accommodates Missionary, Spoon, Cowgirl and Doggie-Way (if you don't know these, read up, my friends. The net is a beautiful thing). Only information technology's fourth dimension to spice it up, people!

Beneath are 5 new positions you lot can try to milk shake upwards your twin Forty. All of the positions listed below are gender-inclusive and tin be modified to maximize your sexual pleasure. Delight replace the incorporated gender pronouns with whatever best suits your needs.

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Pretzel

Forget Auntie Anne's. This position will have you feeling better than any Sweet Coat-dipped soft pretzel e'er has. He kneels while she lies on her side and positions i leg under him and the other leg straddled over one of his legs. This slightly complicated set-up lends itself to the deep penetration of Doggy-Mode while still allowing for some face up-to-face up contact.

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Opposite Cowgirl

He lies on his back every bit she straddles herself over him facing abroad, and lowers herself onto his penis. If you've done Cowgirl, this is an easy next step. Saddle up, lovers!

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The Flatiron

This is an easy transition from Doggie-Manner. She lies face down with her pelvis hiked upward (fabricated easier by placing a pillow underneath her hips) while he enters from backside her, knees down and torso held upward with his artillery. Yous might have to Flatiron your clothes subsequently this one…

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The Ten

Both lie on backs facing each other, feet touching. She lifts her right leg over his left while he lifts his correct leg over her left, leaving the bodies to criss-cross. Slowly inch closer as he enters her. This position was Fabricated for the twin Xl, so make skillful use of information technology. While information technology doesn't require likewise much space width-wise, information technology requires more length that the dorm beds just happen to requite united states. Then you lot tin can thank NYU after experiencing this x-ellent orgasm.

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The G-Whiz / Shoulder-Holder

She lies on her back with her legs hoisted upward on his shoulders every bit he positions himself facing her and enters her leaning in. This position likewise allows for deep penetration and actually only takes up half of the bed. Cha-ching!

Remember: sexual practice is supposed to exist enjoyable for both you and your partner. If at any point you lot feel discomfort, make sure you stop and communicate with your partner. Too, make sure communication happens before trying these new positions, as some people may not be every bit comfortable with new positions — and that is totally okay. Anyway, grab some condoms, stock up on lube (your residing dorm Resource Eye has tons of both) and have at it!

'Til next calendar week,

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In that location are 2 pivotal questions in a relationship from which you lot cannot render: "And so what are nosotros?" and "So how many people have y'all slept with?" The outset question is an unavoidable research when i of the participating parties of the dating ritual wants to get correct to the point. Asking "So what are nosotros?" is like ripping off a band aid: the questioning and answering is quick and possibly painless; if there is hurting, at least it passes swiftly. No love lost correct?

But the latter of the 2 questions can be a dull-ticking time bomb. This question has the potential to lay a foundation of insecurities that will underlay relationship problems to come if one or both of the parties cannot handle the truth. So is it worth knowing? Does your sex activity number matter? And is in that location a perfect fourth dimension for this conversation? Aye, no and yep.

Is your sex number worth knowing?

For health purposes, it's probably best to know how many sexual partners your partner has had. If you and your significant other can handle this conversation maturely, you've got a practiced i. If it becomes a competition, you should get out of that relationship existent quick. Information technology'southward going nowhere. This segues into our side by side question:

Does your sex number matter?

If your partner cares for the sake of competition, then there is no point in continuing things with said partner. It's a common misconception in our society that having more people you've slept with, especially if you are a woman, makes y'all less desirable for matrimony. Because of this societal construct, women go conservative about their sexual lives and men are encouraged to brag nearly theirs. In a contempo report conducted past the Ohio State University — focusing solely on heteronormative relationships —  it was found that women rounded down when asked how many sexual partners they have had and men rounded upwardly. Just the fact of the matter is neither gender should feel the need to lie to his or her partner. So…

Is there a perfect time for this conversation?

The perfect time to take this conversation is when you don't feel the demand to lie to your partner considering you are confident he or she will not estimate yous. Communication, honesty and trust all go hand in hand. You cannot have one without the other and a human relationship will not survive without one of these iii principles. Then when will y'all feel comfy enough to share your number with your S.O.? Well that's up to you two lovebirds and the gradual progression of your relationship.

Live and let live my friends,

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